Find a church that focuses on the Holy Bible (the Word of the Bible) and one that you feel comfortable at.
Don't be shy about asking for help or talking to the pastor/preacher.
God wants you to be with him for all eternity "He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance." 2 Peter 3:9
Here are some other resources:
NOTE: Right-click on the links to open in a new window. The links presented are not an endorsement by these ministries for this site, they are references provided to help you.
Won without a word - http://www.infowest.com/personal/w/wonwithoutaword/
(This site is a great place to start and you can sign up to recieve e-mails for support and information.)
Unequally Yoked - http://www.unequallyyoked.net/
(another good place to look for information on unsaved spouses)
Bible Gateway - http://www.biblegateway.com/
(Great reference for daily readings or verse of the day. Also a great place to search for subjects/topics in the Bible)
Proverbs 31 ministry - http://proverbs31.gospelcom.net/index.php
(A place for women searching for "peace, perspective, and purpose.")
Bible Commentaries - http://eword.gospelcom.net/comments/
Rejoice Ministries - http://www.rejoiceministries.org/
Focus on the Family - http://www.family.org/married/
Billy Graham Evangelistic Association - http://bgea.org/default.asp
Heartlight - http://www.heartlight.org/spurgeon/
(Morning & Evening is the classic devotional by 19th-century writer and preacher Charles Spurgeon.)
Crosswalk.com site - http://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/
(A good site for information about your Christian walk - this link is for the marriage section)
In jesus - http://www.injesus.com/index.php?module=group&task=subscribe&GroupID=8B0061AV